
I adopted Tobias the cat on October 15th 1996 at the Hopalong Animal Adoption thing on the sidewalk outside the Safeway on College Ave. I was 19 years old and Toby was about 6 months. They told me that it was the last day to adopt a black cat until after Halloween. They also told me Toby was a noisy cat, and they weren't kidding. I wasn't looking for any type or color of cat, I just thought Toby was a cute kitten.
For the first few days he hid under the stove and in other nooks in the house I rented in Oakland with two roommates. Eventually he would come peek around the doorway to watch us but if we made a move he would run. Within a few weeks of me feeding him he started to sleep in my bed with me at night. He loved to hang out under lamps and in houseplants. Like most kittens, he was a bit crazy and always on the attack. He also meowed... a lot.

Toby and I moved into a studio apartment on Piedmont Ave in 1997 and lived together there for three years. He spent the summers in the sunlight coming in from the window and he spent the winters conked-out in front of the apartment's heater. Sometimes he would dart into the hallway and meow like crazy but for the most part seemed pretty happy to just hang-out with me on the futon and play in boxes and paper bags. Even though I lived alone for this time I was never all that lonely thanks to having Toby T. constantly by my side.

In 2000, Narangkar and I moved into a 1-bedroom apartment together and Tobias was introduced to his new little sister, Roo. I remember when we let them both out of their kitty carriers at the same time and they just locked eyes for a while. Toby and Roo got along together immediately and although they never completely snuggled together they spent a great deal of time wrestling and chilling out next to each other. Roo employed her signature "side-stance" and would fluff Toby with her tail while Toby would just wait with his eyes all squinty. Then he would pounce and knock Roo over, they would wrestle a bit, one would run away (usually Toby) and the whole thing would start over. They constantly battled over bags and boxes and sunlight but they rarely growled and never hurt each other.

Tobias and Roo together were known as Roobias. Since they usually were being bratty together it just was easier to yell at them both at once. They were a little yin-yang. Roo is feminine, fluffy, white fur with a pink nose and blue eyes, and pretty quiet. Toby was masculine, short hair, black fur with a black nose and green eyes, and was loud and proud. While Roo will get your arms with her back foot claws Toby would punch you with his paw (no claws) in the head. We called it "bapping". Both Toby and Roo are the same size and both super sweet. The same, yet opposites.

Toby has always been there and made his presence known for my entire adult life. He was my little partner and I cannot even count how many great times we had. I'm sure most cats form bonds with their 'owners' but anybody who met Toby knows he was downright obsessed with me. He would stare at me for hours, meow at me for even longer, and he liked to sleep in my armpit-nook on chilly nights. Sometimes he would even sleep under the covers with his head on the pillow. He completely allowed me to hug, kiss, and moigel him all the time.
The last year and a half was pretty tough on Toby. After having most of his teeth removed in November 2005 he had a minor meltdown and refused to eat when we had to temporarily house my sister's cat, Bert. Once he recovered from that he still had trouble gaining weight and was having a gum infection and digestion problems and nothing seemed to help. We later would find out his gum problem was really a malignant melanoma tumor. By the time we got a proper diagnosis in July of this year it was pretty bad. This type of tumor is extremely rare in cat's mouth and despite cutting it back twice it was growing very rapidly.
Tobias was euthanized in our home this past Monday morning. While it was absolutely heartbreaking to see him go I am glad he did not suffer greatly in his final months and got to enjoy lots of tuna. Although pretty sick he still was a sweetheart up until the very end and we miss him so much. He always made his presence known so now it is starkly missing in my life. I love him very much (as do Narangkar and Little Roo) and I will never forget him and the joy he brought me.

We had lots of name for Tobias: Little Guy, Teegins, Talky Teegy from the Toogy-Toogies, Mister T, Evil Mordock, Snooginsen, Tobiason, Tobiashi, Toby T., Special T., and the Man of a Million Meows. It is quite likely he actually did hit a million meows (he probably averaged over 200 a day). So here is to my best friend forever; There will never be another cat like him.